Music and guestbook
Your guests' songs and messages, published only when you approve them.
The playlist
In Music you add your songs. Guests suggest theirs from the website, with their personal link, and they reach you as Pending.
Approve the ones that make the list or discard them. Only approved songs show on the website; discarded ones can be recovered.
The guestbook
The messages your guests write arrive in Messages as pending. Approve them so they show on the website, or discard them.
You can Reply to each message: the reply shows underneath, on the website. Replying to a pending message approves and publishes it.